Sunday, August 1, 2021

Not Gonna Lie 🙊

 So, first of all happy friendship day to all the people who came in my life and taught me different philosophies, that were just part of books and novels. From childhood I am a friendly person, even though I changed many schools I received love and friendliness from every classmates and schoolmates. So many people I lost contact with but they are still really close to me as I think of them, thanks to Instagram I got in contact with some of them, even though we just wish each other on birthdays or just reply to each others stories. While I was growing I learnt many things, my friends have always played a important role in shaping my personality. To be honest I really don't think I have a original personality because every person who crossed path with me has helped me change myself in a better way. I have a habit of taking things (obviously talking about behaviour) from my friends. For example, if I have a friend who is silent and introvert, I'll also take the introvertness and then behave as a introvert in front of a person who is loudest and extrovert, strange I know right. But this is how I've been from childhood. 

But whenever I say friends I only consider few people. Because I'm friendly but not friends with everyone. Some people lost this position as circumstances and situations changed. Still I talk to them because I really don't like losing people, that makes things weird and rude, if anyday they still come back , to avoid this situation I act casual. Besides from this I don't hold grudges against people, that's a complete waste of energy. Just remember no one is permanent, everyone are just part of your journey, you'll always meet new people with different minds as you move forward.  But also make sure if you can make efforts to keep the old ones do it, don't expect anything back from them. Change is eternal, you have changed they also have changed.